Dr. Jablonski, You are a gem! You give working examples and emphasize patience.  It was your expertise that helped me years ago. You advised to put a pretty blue towel over the toilet (which looked like a hole) and say, “have a seat”. I’d pull the towel out as she turned to sit. I especially appreciated all your smart tips when I needed them to assure her to trust me, and know she was loved and safe. I keep you as a constant guide to share with friends that are caregivers now.